Be nice, but not too nice. Be successful, but not too successful. Just be likeable. Whatever that means? Women are stuck in an impossible bind. At work, strong women are criticized for being cold, and warm women are seen as pushovers. Alicia, our beloved host, resident award-winning journalist and soon-to-be MSNBC anchor, examines this fundamental paradox and empowers us to let go of old rules and reimagine leadership rather than reinventing ourselves.

Read an excerpt in Time Magazine.